31 December 2008

New Years Eve '08

Cory is sick
so we're spending the waning hours of 2008 surfing the web on our respective laptops and watching vhi top 100 hard rock videos...
He just found this and it made me laugh so hard I almost went into labor...ALMOST being the operative word....

http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-chat/1470521/posts

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!

27 December 2008

Update: Thanksgiving and pics from Jen's wedding

Since I have eliminated my job and school responsibilities and have nothing to do but wait (and hang out with Cory and Lindsay...and read Twilight that I got for Christmas...and play with my new I phone...it's actually pretty ideal although you do start to forget all those things you "needed" to do pretty quickly when you actually have time to do them...) I thought I'd update with pics from Thanksgiving weekend. One of my long-time friends Jen got married to Russ Perkins and it was wonderful to be there in the temple with them and to go to the reception and see how cute and happy they are-- YAY for Jen and Russ!!!!!

About a week before the wedding we took jen out and made her wear this silly bachelorette crown...sadly, .she refused to keep it on the whole night because it just suits her SO well!!!

Cory proving his manliness by carving the Thanksgiving Turkey at my mom and Larry's house
The random crowd at Thanksgiving dinner--Cory, me, Aaron, Larry's mom and Larry's son's Kevin friend Adam from his mission...the more the merrier :)
Cory, Lisa and Nick, and Kerri waiting outside the temple--it was raining that week but turned out to be a PERFECT AZ november day
The happy couple right as they came out!!!

All of us girls with the beautiful bride!!! Kerri, Shannon, Jen, Lisa, and Becca, and me :)
Jen and Russ cutting their cake at the reception--she did not disappoint and smashed it all over him soon after this....The reception was really fun and I got to see my friend Erin and Julie from high school that I haevn't seen in forever!!! (and of course meet their adorable children!!)

so yeah, there's an update on pics...and still no baby...starting to get desperate :) HAPPY HOLIDAYS! I hope everyone is enjoying after Christmas sales!!!

25 December 2008

Just made an appointment for tomorrow to activate my iPhone.

23 December 2008

the cat's favorite room....





The baby's room is DONE!!! Cory did a great job with the paint and it's all ready to go...just waiting for little jackson, jefferson, harrison, monroe, hamilton, nixon, or whatever to come home!!! SO let's get this business started!!! (oh and notice the stuffed dog in the crib..that was cory's when he was little...I thought it was a bit on the ugly side but it's a puppet and he makes the cutest voices with it!!)

I'm so excited to be done with work, school, and everything and just be hanging out getting ready for christmas and watching chick flicks with my sister in law--I seriously NEVER thought I would survive the semester and I feel so incredibly blessed that things have turned out so well--And now I get to have a BABY!!! I know this wasn't what we were planning right now but it's just wonderful and I feel so lucky to be on the cusp of a whole new phase in my life -YAY BABIES!!!!!

22 December 2008

Is not amused by the ubiquity of the snow effect on many websites. I feel like I have floaters in my eyes.

06 December 2008

36 week pictures



My WONDERFUL friend Angela was in town so I took advantage of her amazing photography skills and had her take some christmas/prego pics of Cory and I last week. She truly did an awesome job--anyone who can make someone as pregnant as me look good deserves a cookie!!! As far as the baby goes--less then a month now--I have finals next week and than about a week of work and than I will be SO ready (around Dec 20) hopefully baby boy brown will be ready too :)
Here is a link to Angela's photography blog if you want to see a few more

imcapturingmoments.blogspot.com

23 November 2008

baby shower!!!



Last Thursday Jen, Lisa, and Kerri threw me a baby shower and it was awesome!! Great food, friends, and adorable baby stuff I pretty much feel like I will have no idea what to do with--why would I need onesies or bibs or a baby monitor??? :) The pictures came out really blurry and small but here are a couple...

19 November 2008

GO MITT!!

Reason #1 I think Republicans chose the wrong candidate and the American public the wrong president to fix our economy....
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/19/opinion/19romney.html?_r=2&oref=slogin

18 November 2008

Yes I've switched over!!!!


As of last night I officially turned in my busted up, can't hold a battery charge, often dies during class laptop for a mac. Although a normal person probably could have made a computer last three years I am just a little too tough on electronics to make that happen--here's hoping the snazzy one piece aluminum frame will be able to handle what I have to dish out :) HAPPY EARLY CHRISTMAS TO ME!!!!

10 November 2008

Updated Pics-32 and a half weeks!!!

Sorry this has taken me so long...but here are a few new big huge massive pregnant pictures of me :) ENJOY!!!!




29 October 2008

political stuff that distracted me during evidence this morning

I just had to share a couple of articles that I came across today. The first one deals with tax policy--while it would be nice if Obama actually only taxed those making more then $250,000 a year and gave a tax cut to 95% of americans like he likes to promise (although the 95% thing doesn't make a lot of sense because a big percentage of americans don't pay taxes...how can you give a cut to those who don't pay??? I know we've got the EITC which I've heard he wants to increase but that should not be considered a tax cut in any sense of the word) with all of the things he wants to spend money on I can't help but wonder if it's gonna end up hitting the middle class even if you reject the whole "trickle down economics" thing....

http://online.wsj.com/wsjgate?subURI=%2Farticle%2FSB122523819032678157-email.html&nonsubURI=%2Farticle_email%2FSB122523819032678157-lMyQjAxMDI4MjI1OTIyMzk4Wj.html

The second article just sums up some of my frustrations about the recent political climate...and one of the reasons the inevitable will probably happen next tuesday.
http://greensboro.rhinotimes.com/orson.10.09.08.html

27 October 2008

8 things

I was first on Sheila's tagged list...so I suppose I better waste a few minutes and do this (poor me!! :))

8 TV shows I love to watch: (and these are in no particular order)
1. House
2. The Office
3. Anything on the Food Network
4. Anything on HG TV
5. What Not to Wear
6. Glenn Beck
7. Extreme Makeover Home Edition (even though I cry after like 5 minutes and pretty much keep crying the whole time...)
8. ummmmm........can't think of any other ones. Honestly usually when I'm watching TV I'm either doing something else or am trying to do something else...sorta more like background noise...

8 Things that Happened to me Yesterday:
1. Went to church and was only like two minutes late (and cory didn't even complain like he typically does--thanks cory!!)
2. Got to wear the hot red shoes I just bought to church!!!
3. Bribed my primary children with brownies despite them already being hyped up on halloween candy from the trunk or treat the night before
4. Tried to teach 11 year olds about the scriptures---actually had a couple of minutes of what one might call "engaging discussion," and no one told me about how I was a crappy teacher--YAY!!!!
5. worked on some homework--just enough to get me through today....still didn't start the 25 page paper that's due in a week...but I'm working on it now.....ok I will be....
6. went for a walk with cory--it's finally starting to get to the point where it's not 100 degrees at like 10 p.m.
6. ate leftovers since we have tons and I need to get rid of them --not bad though
7. spent quality time with my spouse--it was WONDERFUL to just get to relax a little bit
8.Finally watched the Scrubs DVD we've had from netflix for like two months...

8 Favorite Places to Eat:
1. Mexican food inside a gas station in Phx--it sounds weird but it's really good
2. Safeway Deli for their Yum Sandwiches
3. Q'Doba for veggie nachos with guacamole
4. Carrabas
5. Joe's Deli--they have a free soft serve ice cream machine--enough said
6. Abuelo's (guess what my favorite genre of food is...)
7. Spicy Pickle
8. Zocales--a mexican place in Chandler


8 Things I am looking forward to:
1. HAVING THIS BABY!!! PREFERABLY BY CHRISTMAS!!!!
2. Going along with #1--wearing normal clothes, sleeping on my stomach, and NOT being nauseous every day!!!
3. Graduating from Law School--May 15, 2009
4. Getting my dad's house FINALLY FINISHED so I can have a Saturday that doesn't involve going down there all day and trying to help the fixing up without breathing too many paint fumes
5. Finding someone to rent my dad's house and live with my little bro so I don't have to keep paying the mortgage
6. Paying off my student loans!!!!! (someday!!)
7. NOT BEING PREGNANT!!!
8. CHRISTMAS!!!!! (WITH A NEW BABY THAT I JUST HAD!!!)

8 Things on my wish list:
1. A safe painless delivery for my child (before my due date dang it!!!)
2. Cory to get an awesome raise and continue to love his job
3. Cory or I to find an awesome job somewhere not as hot as Arizona....Seattle or DC top the list
4. A yellow convertible mini cooper
5. a new computer with a battery that actually holds a charge
6. A miracle!! Mccain wins the election and Republicans take control of the House or Senate (but not both...we need some opposition right?)
7. Prop 102 passes!!!
8. My campaign finance paper to magically be done while I sit here and work on this blog post....

8 People I Tag:
umm...whoever feels the need to waste a little time

09 October 2008

just so you don't think that ALL we care about is politics....

Here is a link to the CUTE bedding and nursery decor stuff I was able to buy off this women on Craig's List last week. We pretty much snagged everything listed in the link (ok not the border or the tacky wall decals or the hamper) for WAY less then it would cost new and she threw in a free matching stroller. It just about made my year. No I'm not kidding it really did!!! I keep telling people about it who probably couldn't care less :)

(And I know Cory is super excited too because during General Conference he decided to put the crib together and put all the cute winnie the pooh stuff in it...downstairs...in what should be called our "piano room" but mostly consists of furniture we're not currently using that the cats like to sit on and rip up..how we're going to get the crib up to where the baby will actually be sleeping is beyond me....)

http://www.toysrus.com/search/index.jsp?kwCatId=&kw=patchwork%20pooh&origkw=patchwork%20pooh&f=Taxonomy/TRUS/2255957&sr=1

SEE!!! Republicans ARE nicer then Democrats!!!

Once I had a very good Dem friend tell me I "felt" like Democrat. She meant it as a complement....because obviously Dems are caring and kind and loving and Republicans eat babies and kill old people. I maintain that you can be NICE, happy, idealistic, AND a conservative at the same time!!! And I was happy to see this article talking about how the McCain camp treats reporters better.
http://www.cbsnews.com/blogs/2008/10/07/politics/fromtheroad/entry4507703.shtml

24 September 2008

apparently Joe Biden doesn't know who was president when the stock market crashed???

if you ask me, not knowing 9th grade American history is a whole lot more problematic then not fully grasping the "Bush Doctrine" .....at the same time I can't help but admit that I somehow find Joe Biden's silly little comments endearing...he doesn't care about saying the right thing...he just lets whatever come out of his mouth!!!

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/washington/2008/09/biden-fdr.html

18 September 2008

Marriage Amendments and my smart husband

One more political matter. Since the LDS church has come out so strongly in favor of state constitutional amendments to define marriage as between a man and a woman the topic has dominated some conversations we have been having lately. Awhile ago Cory felt compelled to send the email below to bunches of people and I just wanted to post it to get some of our thoughts out there. While I have always been one that has been persuaded by arguments that people should be able to live their lives as long as they are not hurting anyone else the fact is that legally redefining marriage does have huge societal (cost, litigation, etc) and religious freedom ramifications.

Dear all,
As discussion of Proposition 8 in California has increased, better known as the "Protect Marriage Amendment," I have become increasingly convinced that this issue is of paramount importance. For those that know me well, you will know that I am not one for conspiracies, nor do claim that such-and-such thing or person will "destroy" our country/society/culture or whatever. You will also know that I am not a racist, bigot, hatemonger, or homophobe.I hope you will also notice that I NEVER send along, or forward mass emails. This is an obvious exception and is written by my hand. I hope you will appreciate why I have broken track record for this.My reasons for feeling as strongly as I do are based on what is actually happening in Massachusetts as a result of their "legalizing" homosexual marriage, not necessarily what could happen.As a result of allowing same-sex marriages, since 2005 Massachusetts hospitals have been advised to cross out "Father" and write in "Second Parent" for lesbian couples (I could not find any instance of either one of a male gay couple bearing a child so the issue of male-male "parent" birth certificates has not come up...yet). For reasons why this has a substantial impact beyond the need to reprint a batch of birth certificates I will refer you to this article from 2005.In 2006, The Boston Archdiocese's Catholic Charities discontinued it's very successful adoption program inside Massachusetts because the new state law made it illegal to refuse to adopt to same-sex couples. In this article the Rev. J. Bryan Hehir, president of Catholic Charities explained that the state law infringed on their religious freedom and concluded that they must withdraw from the state in order to continue practicing their faith.After Governor Romney's failed attempts to prevent the adoption of same-sex "marriage" in the state of Massachusetts, the Governor began enforcing the states long standing residency requirements for marriage to ensure that Massachusetts did not become "the Las Vegas of gay marriages." This prevented gay couples from outside the state to come in, get married and go back home where they could then have a claim that their "marriage" was valid. On July 15th 2008, the Massachusetts Sate Senate voted to repeal those residency requirement sections of the Massachusetts State marriage code, "The Senate acted by voice vote, allowing the senators to avoid putting their individual positions on record during this election year". The bill then went to the house and on July 30th, in an emergency session, they adopted and immediately enacted the bill, opening the flood gates to all same-sex couples in the country to get married in Massachusetts and claim validity in other states.No such provision was offered with the California Supreme Court overruled the vast majority (61% of the population) in the 2000 Prop 22 ballot and, being elected to no office, and accountable to no one with out a state wide recall, by the slimest of margins created law that will force a minority's opinion in one state upon the entire country.This is what HAS happened, and the problems will only grow from here. Attached is a pdf from Family Leader Network, an organization committed to the preservation of the family with marriage between a man and a woman as its central tenant. If you are not 100% convinced that getting involved is the right thing to do, read it. If you are looking for good arguments to counter those who seek to undermine the family, read it.I will be posting this letter on my blog and I would love your comments there. Thank you for your friendship and your support in any way you can on this vital matter.
Cory

BUT IT'S AN ELECTION YEAR!!!!

Everyone probably knows that both cory and I are pretty into politics. I've been meaning forever to post our/my thoughts on the current political happenings and have just been too busy with law school, work, being a large pregnant woman, trying to find matching baby stuff on craig's list, teaching primary, trying to fix up my dad's house, various student organizations, blah blah etc. etc. However, I don't want anyone to think that these topics are not dominating my thoughts and conversations...cuz they are!! We are getting closer and closer to an election that is a) historic and b) will surely affect the direction this country is headed, for better or worse. My wonderful friend and former DC roomie, betsey, emailed me an article on Governor Palin the other day and asked for my thoughts- in the interest of time saving I wanted to post my response since it sums up some of what I'm thinking...as I'm sure you are all dying to know. For some context, Betsey is a beautiful, educated, accomplished woman with a genius husband and adorable daughter...and she just happens to lean a BIT to the left of me :)

SO, here is a link to the article from the NYT
http://www.nytimes.com/2008/09/16/opinion/16brooks.html?_r=2&oref=slogin&oref=slogin
and here is my rather long-winded response:

Ok, this article is interesting I suppose. The underlying arguments about the need for experienced prudent leaders and how the founders were looking to have citizens elect the best and not themselves certainly has some merit (although they seem like Madison arguments that could be juxtaposed against Jefferson arguments that the working class farmers, citizens, merchants, etc and not the elite should rule-after all weren't the revolutionaries fighting against British monarchy? Even if the founders themselves were aristocrats in some sense of the word they were also much closer to the people then those they were trying to get away from...)

BUT the article also seems to base its conclusions on some assumptionsI just don't buy. First, it puts Palin against Bush and argues that Palin is not qualified the same way Bush was not and gives Bush as the example of how an "of the people" "regular guy" kind of candidate simply is not fit to lead. Bush is a harvard educated, connecticut raised MBA whose father was president....While the brashness and "overdecisiveness" may fit some of what we have heard about Palin personality wise Bush is certainly a far cry from a university of idaho graduated poli sci minor from Alaska....and also--was experience a huge issue with Bush that the public overlooked when they elected him and now we need to make sure to not make the same mistake again? Idon't really think so.

Second, the article judges Palin as if she was going to be President and not VICE president when it talks about the need for prudence and ability to weigh options and choose the best one (the qualities that only experience can provide)...All of these attacks on Palin seem to do that--or if they are not they certainly aren't framing their attacks to state that Palin would not be qualified for the role for which she was nominated by arguing that she would be unable to make the decisions that a vice president will need to make. All I ever hear is "candidate one heartbeat away from the presidency..." arguments. Basically the only answer to me seems to be that everyone is SO sure McCain is going to die during the next four years and they feel genuine unease at the prospect of Palin being commander in chief. They're right --Palin is NOT qualified to be president--but the fact that she is the only one on either ticket who is NOT a senator and actually has exeuctive experience and is also the type of person Americans can relate to and is not the Washington elite may very well make her qualified to be VP. If Dems are so sure that McCain is goingto die (which I dont think is likely in the next four years even if he is 72 he is too crotchity of an old man to go quietly) they should attack HIM head on and not disguise their attacks as an attack on hisVP choice.

Finally, and I'm sure you will be annoyed by this but I'm sorry I think its totally relevant, when you look at the article's definitionof prudence:
"ability to grasp the unique pattern of a specific situation. It is the ability to absorb the vast flow of information and still discernthe essential current of events — the things that go together and the things that will never go together. It is the ability to engage in complex deliberations and feel which arguments have the most weight...The prudent leader possesses a repertoire of events, through personal involvement or the study of history, and can apply those models to current circumstances to judge what is important and what is not, who can be persuaded and who can't, what has worked and what hasn't."


McCain has these qualities but Obama does not. If you were going to put Obama against Palin I don't know that I can go so far to say that Palin is more experienced. Obama has been in national politics, he represented more people in Illinois then live in Alaska, etc.However--we should NOT be piting Obama against Palin. Obama is still a freshman senator. What makes him ready to lead? what makes him able to "absorb the vast flow of information and still discren the essential current of events?"

At the end of the day, McCain was certainly not my first choice for Rep candidate (umm...the economy..HELLO..romney...)-BUT I think Palinwas a great VP choice for him. Politically she has the conservativec redentials that he needs and despite her inexerience and maybe some vindictiveness or other negative personality traits she may have I like her, I was absolutely offended when I heard CNN claim that only uneducated women will support her, and I look forward to seeing how she does at the VP debates. Also, I'm still a Republican--policy wise McCain palin wins for me every time. McCain will not raise taxes on small business or remove the payroll tax cap or TRIPLE the earned income tax credit like Obama wants to do. And by putting Palin on the ticket McCain reinforces his "changed" position and hopefully will be willing to drill offshore which I think is ABSOLUTELY necessary in order for us to bridge the gap between fossil fuels and renewables (my boss here at the Corp Commission is big on energy issues so I've researched it a bit), and with McCain we are much more likely to get conservatives justices on the Supreme Court when Ginsburg, Stevens, and Souter retire..which will likely be soon after a new president is in (although I've always considered myself more of a fiscal then a social conservative with the church coming out so strong in favor of state marriage amendments lately I can't help but shift to the right on social issues a bit).

One other thing...WHY DON'T I KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT JOE BIDEN???

29 August 2008

VACAY AND PREGGERS PICTURES

Ok this is for all of you who just can't wait to see what a hot pregnant chica I am :) Here are a bunch of pics from our vacation a couple of weeks ago. We had a WONDERFUL time in Idaho visiting my aunt Kim. We stayed in her cabin in Driggs, relaxed, went to Jackson Hole, toured around Yellowstone (and saw Bison during mating season!!!), hiked A LOT and saw some GORGEOUS scenery. We also spent a day in Rexburg where Cory went to school at BYU Idaho and he was absolutely giddy to show me all the places he used to hang out. It was the perfect chance to relax before school started (for both of us!! YAY for Cory and his new graduate program). All of the pics are from our trip when I was about 21 weeks except for the last one which I had cory take tonight before cory, aaron, and I went out to dinner at pei wei (yummy!! exciting Friday night for us!!) --so you have a totally updated 23 ish week picture--and I seriously may not look that big but I'm HUGE trust me :)













12 August 2008

updated pictures

OK....SO...we're going on VACATION for a whole week in Idaho to visit my aunt---I'm SO excited to get out of the HELLISH Arizona summer and just relax before school starts next week. My mom dropped us off at the airport super early and after two tries purchasing a new battery for my camera on ebay..since I lost mine (you know...since I lose everything) I got one that works!!! So here are a few pictures that I have yet to post from the summer. For everyone who is hoping for big fat prego pics of me...too bad... not happening yet :) however I am officially in maternity clothes and starting to come to grips with it so I'm sure the pics will be coming soon....


From San Diego in May-we went to the beach to look at sea lions

And at the San Diego zoo of course we had to pose with the goat ..
we also went to the petting zoo...


Everyone went to this yummy bakery and bought the most BEAUTIFUL cake back!! it tasted good too (well..once we took the flowers off)

We convinced some friends to rent these silly yellow cars and drive them around--this is an updated version of the cars we rented in SD on our honeyoon--SO FUN!!


Sometime this summer cory and I went with Lisa and Nick to Canyon Lake--apparently it's just down the road from us--right in the middle of the desert!

07 August 2008

It's a boy

If you haven't heard already, we had our ultrasound yesterday (Tuesday, Aug 6) and found out we are having a boy. HOW COOL IS THAT? So without any further blathering, here are the pics.















06 August 2008

BOY BOY BOY BOY BOY

Apparently our child does support the democratic process---with 6 votes boy and 3 girl (this includes my google chat voters as well as the blogging ones)-BOYS win and we will indeed be birthing a manchild..updated ultrasound pics to follow.

YAY FOR BABY BOY BROWN!!!!

05 August 2008

We find out tomorrow!!

I went in for a doctor's appointment today hoping they would schedule my yet unscheduled 20 week ultrasound and they had a slot open TOMORROW!! YAY!!! so...people may not even check the blog before then but what do ya think--baby boy or baby girl brown???

Also, this is way off topic but I thought this article from the WSJ was awesome
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB121780636275808495.html

28 July 2008

mad props to cory

I just have to share the recipe that my awesome husband made last Thursday--I was going to the gym with aaron (my little bro) as we've become accustomed to doing (he makes me) and asked cory to 1) water the plants, 2) take out the garbage, and 3) go to the store and buy stuff since we have none....and make dinner....and I didn't want chicken or anything with meat in very large chunks because of course that grosses me out..
Anywhoo--I got home an hour later and not only was everythign done but he made this (cutting up the pork chops into little pieces to obey my rules of course) and it was YUMMY!!!! I highly recommend it!!! Man do I have the best husband ever!!!

http://allrecipes.com/Recipe/Apple-Pork-Chop-Casserole/Detail.aspx

14 July 2008

MY EGGO IS PREGO!!!!

Yes!!! For all of our blog readers out there (ok..both of you) your suspicions after reading my last blog post are true. I'm pregnant!!! It was exactly planned...(whoever thinks the pill works better not forget a day...ever...) but we're super excited about baby brown who is due on January 1st!!! I'm at about 15 weeks at this point--still a bit of nauseousness going on but luckily I got some drugs at my last appointment that work wonderfully!! We also had an ultrasound and heard the baby's heartbeat which was AMAZING (and scary!!!)!!! Parenthood here we come!!!!
Here is a pic of the ultrasound---sadly our insurance does not cover those snazzy 3-d ones and we don't have a video to show you or anything but you can see a head and a spine and some legs if you are really creative :) YAY FOR BABIES!!!!





10 July 2008

Happy anniversary to us!!!


I know it's a few days late but I just wanted to commemorate our FIRST anniversary!!!! I can't even believe that we've been married a year already!!!! Monday night to celebrate we went to the melting pot and it was YUM-A-ROO!!! Cory succumbed to spending an exorbitant amount of money on fondue even though he maintains it is not real food because he figured it was the only time we would actually do something like that so, why not. We had lots of fun eating yummy lobster tail and other various delicious meats and artichoke cheese dip with bread and apples and of course the CHOCOLATE!!! Normally I am not one of those people who dies at the sight of chocolate dipped strawberries (I prefer veggies to fruit most of the time..I know it's weird…plus usually the chocolate all comes off at once..) so you'd think that the cheesecake or the pound cake or the brownies dipped in chocolate would have been the best—but NO it was the strawberries for sure!!! Anywhoo, we had lots of fun and I'm so grateful that I have a wonderful husband who has been a constant support during a trying year, who will do anything (and cheerfully) to make me happy, who constantly amazes me with his curiosity and intelligence, and who somehow still thinks I'm the hottest girl on earth even when I'm vomiting every morning, haven't done my hair all summer, and none of my clothes seem to fit…I LOVE YOU CORY!!!!

09 July 2008

cory is so much cooler than me... and smarter!!!!

I just wanted to inform everyone that cory has his OWN blog that he has decided to utilize to memorialize his "intellectual" pursuits that somehow he does not think are appropriate for "our blog"
so if you are feeling like our blog posts aren't nearly smart enough for you --check it out!!!!

http://thepressurevalve.blogspot.com/

...i love you cory....

05 July 2008

Life can be exceedingly trying at times and the axiom "It never rains but it pours" seems to vindicate itself a lot. We would like to share everything with all of you, but since much of it involves others who we don't have permission from to share, we can't. I can say however that the passing of Amber's dad in the beginning of April was a sudden and heart-wrenching event and may be seen as the catalyst for much of what has happened.

It is not either of our natures to dwell on hardship and certainly not to seek for sympathy. We do however enjoy to hear from everyone and so we are asking for you opinions. Sometime at the end of July or the beginning of August, we have decided to go on a little vacation. We would love to have your input as to where we should go and what we should do.

Here are our criteria:

  1. Our budget is rather small, less than $1200 in total cost is what we are looking for.

  2. It would be best if it were a long weekend kind of thing. So no more than 5 days but more like 3-4.

  3. It should be relaxing. Amber especially is in need of some escape given the pressures of school compounded on everything else (again, more to come on these things as they are permitted to enter the public knowledge, many of you know some them). Nothing that would require very strenuous activity like camping for a week in the jungles of Belize.

  4. It must be memorable and enlightening. This is my personal requirement. I want to be able to learn something. Whether historical, cultural or introspective, it doesn't really matter. As long as we are edified.
That's it. Leave us some comments on what you think would be a good idea. Keep in mind we live in Arizona so "Go to Duck Beach" is not as simple as it may be for you east coasters.

03 July 2008

I love you Daddy!!!!




As many of you know, my Dad passed away on April 2nd of this year. I have been meaning to do a post in celebration of him, his birthday (May 1st) and Father’s Day, but just haven’t had a chance yet and I figure hey—Fourth of July is a holiday too right?

These last few months have been pretty difficult to say the least. You never quite realize how much you will miss someone until they are taken from you. My dad knew how much my brother and I loved him and we felt his love for us…and even with the knowledge we have about this life not being the end of ANYTHING and the opportunity we have to have our families continue far beyond the grave it is still tough. Although I didn’t see my dad nearly as much as I would have liked, I am SO grateful that I have been in Arizona for the last two years (WOW has it been that long?) and have gotten a chance to spend more time with him. As a commemoration to my daddy, here are some of my favorite memories and traits:

  1. I have never had any doubt about my dad’s absolutely unconditional love for me. And he was always so proud of both his kids for whatever silly things we did. I remember when I was in high school I was playing at a piano recital and my dad came and sat in the back by himself and was just sitting there crying (and I definitely didn’t see him cry often if ever) because he was so proud of my accomplishment. I mean to play Memory from cats…it’s really not that tough of a song and yet he was so proud.

  2. My dad always sacrificed for his family. For as long as I can remember my dad loved to play pool and always wanted a table of his own. However, our family never had the money or space to get one. He always made sure we had what we needed first-whether it was braces, or going on trips as a family, or our first cars (and fixing them…a lot). My dad finally got his pool table after my parents got divorced and after awhile he couldn’t even use it that often because of health problems. I will always be grateful for the sacrifices he made for us.

  3. My dad was really smart. I was incredibly surprised to know that he never finished college because he was seriously one of those people who just knew EVERYTHING. I remember thinking that my mom was the go-getter, overachieving, good grades smart type (like me), and my dad was the type that was probably actually smarter but just didn’t have to try as hard. Last year my dad still remembered Russian he learned in high school. He loved books and loved to learn about anything. As I became really obsessed with politics I loved to get into conversations (or even lets call them arguments..) with my dad. He always knew what was going on in the world and had lots of opinions. When I went through his house after he passed away I was absolutely amazed at the records and papers and training materials and books he kept over the years. I could tell that this was someone that really enjoyed learning for the sake of learning and I hope someday I can be even a little bit like that.

  4. My dad had a FANTASTIC sense of humor. His mom used to call him a tease and he totally was. Even in tough situations he would always joke around or find some way to poke fun. And he was totally fun. My dad used to take us to dairy queen after school when we were little and hardly ever got to eat sweets. And when we went to Utah and he sent my mom her powdered milk she couldn’t get in Arizona he would send candy with it. He always wanted to stop along the way when we went on road trips and enjoy what everything had to offer. Over the last few years he decided he had no idea what we really wanted for Christmas so money was the best way to go—BUT he always included ridiculous silly gifts along with the cash and I loved it!!! I got a furby, one of those singing wall fish, a samurai monkey that played kung fu fighting, a dolphin light, and most recently he gave me a Winnie the Pooh clock and cory a robot bank that talks….those are the gifts I will probably keep forever and just look at them and smile and know what a silly goofball my dad was.

  5. My dad was a GENIUS at fixing stuff. And I certainly knew how to break things. When I was like 10 or so we went to Sea World and I bought a dolphin snow globe…and of course broke it in the airport. When we got home, he glued the glass back together. Sometime as a teenager, I managed to bust the spoiler on my dodge neon and he put it back together…when I did it again he fastened it so well I don’t think it will EVER come off. I can’t even count how many times he rescued me when I locked my keys in my car. Or fixed my car, printing up guides about proper maintenance and schedules just hoping I would somehow be interested and do what I needed to do to keep my car in order…oops….He reattached the side mirror on TWO different cars (well one reattach one replace). He replaced the bumper. After coming home to move to DC I surrendered my beloved dodge neon to him with peeling paint, a busted ac, and a driver side door that wouldn’t open—he fixed it all and the car runs perfectly to this day, four years later…..The Saturday before he passed away my dad was charging Cory and I’s air conditioners. Even when he died we’re pretty sure he was working on his water heater. It is ridiculous how much practical sense and ability my dad had. I mean WHO can do that stuff??? I hope some of his talents end up with my kids (cuz they certainly skipped me...).